Hi,my mother in law told me last year her doctor said she had shadows on her lungs 18 month previously, she said she didn't want treatment and I was not to say anything to my father in law or husband. She has had a tendency to exaggerate I did tell my husband and he approached it with my father in law .. He said she was fine. . we live some distance apart and don't see each other often they have just come to visit and she has aged 15 years in 9 months. My husband and father in law went out and she told me she has bone cancer as well as lung cancer. When they left I spoke to my husband and he said he spoke to his dad and said she is just getting old, she is nearly 80 .. I told him what I was told and we just don't know what to do.she is definetly not well.. I am sorry if this is not the kind of questions normally asked but I can't stop thinking about it. My husband thinks I am over reacting but he is concerned.