Hi, sadly I've just found out my grandad has cancer, it's terminal. And the doctors say he could be too weak for any treatment. I'm finding it hard to come to terms with this and I'm very worried about my dad, and how he is going to cope with this x
Hello, Katy, how very sad you have to cope with your grandad's diagnosis. I think if the doctors think he is too weak for treatment then you have to accept that - it would be cruel to put him through anything that may cause him pain. Please don't try to take on to much, you must be distressed enough, your dad will cope in his own way and I am sure you will be a great comfort to each other and, together, for your grandad.
Please come back and let us know how you are. You can get help from your Macmillan and Marie Curie nurses. And of course you can talk to us on the forum. x
Hello, Katy, how very sad you have to cope with your grandad's diagnosis. I think if the doctors think he is too weak for treatment then you have to accept that - it would be cruel to put him through anything that may cause him pain. Please don't try to take on to much, you must be distressed enough, your dad will cope in his own way and I am sure you will be a great comfort to each other and, together, for your grandad.
Please come back and let us know how you are. You can get help from your Macmillan and Marie Curie nurses. And of course you can talk to us on the forum. x
