Hello... So what started as breast cancer in my mum has spread to the lymph nodes and bone since being diagnosed 3 years ago. She has been having radiotherapy and getting injections to keep it at bay and has now found out it has spread further to other bones and chemo is on the cards.
My parents live in Ireland while Im here in London. Although in good shape for her age (Mam is 75) Im thinking I should move home to help her while she is having the chemo and afterwards. Someone suggested that it is after the chemo that people need more support? Im pretty clueless about the whole thing really and could do with some rough advice on how long it can take some people to get back on their feet again. At the moment we dont know the kind of chemo she will be having which may make it difficult to advise on (im guessing different kinds may have an effect on her side effects?) But any thoughts are welcome.
Also would appreciate if anyone can suggest some books that may be worth reading to help me get my head around this. I feel quite guilty that Im not there for her more, and other bits from growing up. Having difficulty figuring out the best way to express this before its too late. Also want to learn more about the practical parts of helping someone and what to expect as things progress.
