Hi, Nala, When I was giving birth to one of my children and was in a lot of pain, I remember my husband saying that watching someone you love suffering is worse than being the actual patient.  I was angry at the time and couldn't understand.  A few years later he was in intensive care for 10 weeks before dying and then I fully understood what he meant.  Just sitting there, knowing he was so ill but being unable to do anything was worse than any pain I have ever had.

You are doing your best for your mum and I am sure she knows this and is grateful for all you do.  Can I wish you all the best and hope that you mum gets some pain relief.  Thinking of you both.

Hi, Nala, When I was giving birth to one of my children and was in a lot of pain, I remember my husband saying that watching someone you love suffering is worse than being the actual patient.  I was angry at the time and couldn't understand.  A few years later he was in intensive care for 10 weeks before dying and then I fully understood what he meant.  Just sitting there, knowing he was so ill but being unable to do anything was worse than any pain I have ever had.

You are doing your best for your mum and I am sure she knows this and is grateful for all you do.  Can I wish you all the best and hope that you mum gets some pain relief.  Thinking of you both.

Thank you Pauline - sounds like u have had a hard time too x