My partner was diagnosed with stage 4C bowel cancer a few months ago, and the uncertainty is just horrible. He’s started chemotherapy (palliative) but I’m just so angry. 
is this normal? I’m angry with him, because it’s like he’s given up. I’m angry with his oncologist, because I don’t feel he’s being honest with him (I have a medical background) and we have a young family. He’s refusing any surgery at Basingstoke because he says it’s too brutal. I can’t say I blame him there because it is, I just feel very alone and trying to hold everything together.