Hello my name is tony ive been caring for my mum now for about 4 years i started caring for mum at first due-to having back problems and kidney disease stage 3.now november last year she got told she had stage 4 breast cancer which had spread too her lung and liver she was told due to her age 80 chemo wouldnt be good for her which she declined anyway as she wanted a better quality of life she wasnt given a time scale shes been doing ok up untill last aweek where she seems too off deteriorated since feeling sick not sleeping great at night so when the day comes shes sleep more im trying to support her but im finding it difficult seeing her decline we live together so monday to friday im here all the time then being a part time dj i went to work friday and saturdays i have decided to give this up so im here for mum all the time she managed ok when i had gone but seeing her decline i cant leave her im finding it hard the anxiety is hitting me hard im abit lost right now with worry i know shes going to die with this disease but im try too prepare myself for this