Hi Shadow74,

Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm very sorry to hear of your situation - this must be, as you say, incredibly difficult.

There is some information on our website which may be helpful, such as this page on supporting someone with cancer, and this one on taking care of yourself.

However I know it may be insights from others here that may be most useful to you. My reply will give your post a little boost, so a few more people should see it and hopefully you'll then get more replies.

From the homepage of the forum you can also use the search bar at the top of the page to find other relevant discussions, if you'd like to.

There are also other organisations who offer support services including information, helplines, and local support centres - such as Macmillan and Maggie's.

We're always here whenever you need it.

Wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator