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My husband is my carer, but may have cancer himself

Jjrr
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My husband is my carer and shoulders much of the financial pressure through his job. It has been extra stressful lately and his mental health is suffering. He is currently going through investigation by GP for possible cancer, but no diagnosis yet.

If it is cancer, he won't be able to be my carer, work AND manage treatment. It's already incredible pressure to be under.

Does anybody have experience of being disabled and caring for each other? I am waiting for social care assessment for myself anyway, but the potential hardship ahead is daunting. I want to support him in every way I can.

  • Hi Jjrr,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. It sounds like you are both dealing with a lot at the moment, and I'm sure these investigations are bringing lots more uncertainty and worry - so I hope you're able to find out more soon about this.

    I wanted to send a reply to your post to give it a little boost, so a few more people should see it. From the homepage of the forum you can also use the search bar at the top to find other relevant discussions and people to connect with, if you'd like to.

    If you have questions at this point, you may wish to contact Macmillan, who would be able to offer some advice or information.

    We also have nurses available if you'd like to talk things through with someone. You can reach them on freephone 0808 800 4040 - Monday-Friday, 9-5.

    We're always here if you need it. Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

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