My husband is my carer and shoulders much of the financial pressure through his job. It has been extra stressful lately and his mental health is suffering. He is currently going through investigation by GP for possible cancer, but no diagnosis yet.

If it is cancer, he won't be able to be my carer, work AND manage treatment. It's already incredible pressure to be under.

Does anybody have experience of being disabled and caring for each other? I am waiting for social care assessment for myself anyway, but the potential hardship ahead is daunting. I want to support him in every way I can.