Finding a positive

Ive a friend who has been diagnosed with stage 4 Anal which is in the liver too... 

How do you try to stay positive? Give positive support? 

Waiting for a plan to start their fight. 

I just want to go and be there but even talking on the phone is too much for them atm. Im 2 hours away.  I know it's not about me, can some one help me calm my heart!  How do I support from a distance and be positive what I read is everything but

Close friends  have lost 2 children, 1 adult in the last 18 mths .

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  • Hi Lyse

    I have an old friend who keeps in̈ touch they send me a few short text messages a week and a joke each time. I really appreciate this and the humour lifts my spirits, for a minute my cancer is gone and life is normal. Laughter really is the best medicine. Perhaps you and your friend could swap jokes as a way of staying in touch it would be a good way for you to feel postive while giving support to your friend. The are lots of websites with jokes for you to find inspiration.

    Ed

  • Thank you Ed for your msg. 

    I have just been out with the dogs and sent her some lovely toadstool pictures. 

    I took a picture of us ladt year with all our dogs in a wood walk. Would it be ok to print and frame it to send. Then im kind of with her ?? 

    Sending you love and laughter ️

  • HI lyse

    What a lovely thing to do for your friend to send photos from your woodland walk with your dogs. A framed picture of you both and the dogs is a great idea. I would be delighted to receive such a gift from a friend. It is thoughts like this that make life so much better.

    Ed

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