I'm devastated. He lives in France and I'm in the UK. I'm going to fly out there as soon as possible. He's being treated in Marseille.

I have very little information so far apart that they won't operate. What should I ask the doctors? What's the most efficient treatment?

How can I help my dad deal with this? The diagnosis took months to come as it started with a lung infection that wasn't going away.

I've had intrusive thoughts the whole time. Imagining the worst and now the worst has come. I want to stay strong and positive for him but I'm breaking down. 

If anyone could share their experience going through this, it would be very helpful.

Thank you.