Hello Jo70

You are not alone 

I hear your frustration and am sorry you are feeling un supported. It is upsetting to feel your hardworking husband may not be here to claim his state  pension it seems so unfair to be lose of your retirement years together....it hurts. You clearly have been doing all you can to support him but 

It is so very hard looking after our loved ones / husbands its exhausting and upsetting. I know its hard to keep asking and 

Im not sure who you have asked for help from upto now ? 

Are you able to rind cruk nurses or Macmillan who are open every day 8-8

A frank chat may be just what you need.

I also wonder if with hubbys brain tumour whether you might consider Headway who support people brain injuries including cancer ....and their carers.

As hubby is over 55 Age UK are their for you too....

I hope getting things off your chest here has helped a little

you are not alone wives do get over lookef we are strong capable until we are not

So shout up for you now and say Hey im a Carer and I need help....and dont give up...

Sending strength 

RB