Husband recently diagnosed with inoperable oesophageal cancer - started chemo & immunotherapy this week - hes being upbeat and not showing a bad reaction yet - my mental state is all over the place - from wildly optimistic to virtually in full mourning for the loss that hasnt happened yet.
Family & friends are thin on the ground - he is my everything & i find myself selfishly dwelling on a future without him rather than maximising the good times we can still have
i feel like a total failure