Dad has oesophageal cancer

Hi, my dad has been diagnosed with oesophageal cancer, he's to have 3 different chemotherapy treatments in one in the next couple of weeks, after he's had a test from chemo he will then have surgery to remove the part of his oesothogus that has the tumor and will have further chemotherapy afterwards.

I just feel very alone, not sure how to cope myself keeping a brave face on for dad and supporting him with all his appointments

Id love to connect with carers going through similar circumstances. Maybe we can support eachother, I don't want to offload my worries onto the family were all dealing with this and I don't like to burden my family anymore 

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  • Hello Amber 

    First what a lucky dad to have you looking after him. It is very hard being strong all the time so well done for recognising that and reaching out.

    I am old enough to have lost my parents already so I can relate to that but I am currently supporting Hubby with oesophageal cancer too 

    Each persons experience is unique to them of course but I have found here is a helpful place to chat.

    Also I found Macmillian good for help with benefits etc aswell as information helplines 

    Alongside CRUK. 

    Also counsellor support very helpful

    Take each day as it comes ask questions 

    I hope your dads treatment goes well for him...sending strength

    RB

  • Thank you for your kind words, I will check some more support out ️ I'm so sorry your husband is battling this nasty disease too  sending love to the both of you xx

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