Hi,

My husband has pancreatic cancer and now 6 sessions into chemo.

He's only 52 me 45 with 2 kids.

The unknown is so hard.  You just want answes at this stage and its a waiting game. 

Its so hard for you all to get your head around it all but as time goes on you kinda do. People say stay positive, yeah right that's all well and good but dam hard when your falling to pieces inside but trying to stay strong on the outside.

Family and friends can be amazing but it gets to the point we're its all to overwhelming when everyone messages daily/weekly wanting to know how your are/they are.

Try and be yourself and ask thoses around you to treat your husband as normal.  You want normality as much as possible, I find that helps. 

Crying every day for 3 weeks maybe 4 was my way to begin with now its calmed down but still have melt downs every so often.

It's frustrating, its scary, it's the unknowing, its the sadness and loneliness, everything that beats you up your not alone .

Do you feel your treading on eggshells around your hubby or can you talk openly to each other about it.

The pain he is in am I assuming its in husband back ?

Praying for your hubby and you darling.  I'm here to chat anytime.x

Hi,

My husband has pancreatic cancer and now 6 sessions into chemo.

He's only 52 me 45 with 2 kids.

The unknown is so hard.  You just want answes at this stage and its a waiting game. 

Its so hard for you all to get your head around it all but as time goes on you kinda do. People say stay positive, yeah right that's all well and good but dam hard when your falling to pieces inside but trying to stay strong on the outside.

Family and friends can be amazing but it gets to the point we're its all to overwhelming when everyone messages daily/weekly wanting to know how your are/they are.

Try and be yourself and ask thoses around you to treat your husband as normal.  You want normality as much as possible, I find that helps. 

Crying every day for 3 weeks maybe 4 was my way to begin with now its calmed down but still have melt downs every so often.

It's frustrating, its scary, it's the unknowing, its the sadness and loneliness, everything that beats you up your not alone .

Do you feel your treading on eggshells around your hubby or can you talk openly to each other about it.

The pain he is in am I assuming its in husband back ?

Praying for your hubby and you darling.  I'm here to chat anytime.x