My dads first chemo and immunotherapy treatment today

Where do I start with this, on Easter Sunday just under 3 weeks ago I got a call from my dads partner to say he was slurring his speech and 111 had called an ambulance, the paramedics turn d up and he was be blue lighted to a and e. From here the hospital done tests and found a bleed on the brain and what looked like 8 metastases around the brain. They then rushed him through for an MRI and CT scan to find out a more detailed picture of what was going on and found my dad has lung cancer which has spread into his blood, brain, glands and other vital organs. He stayed 5 days in hospital had a biopsy and we met with the oncologist last week and they offered him treatment which will prolong his life. This will be in the form of chemotherapy and immunotherapy which he had his first dose of today. I am so proud of him (he doesn’t realise how much) and i have promised him i will be there every step of the way with him supporting him. We are staying positive as a family for my dad but i keep thinking how quickly this has all happened literally with in 19 days, it has been a lot to digest for us all but we are keeping our heads up and staying  

Has anyone else been through something similar? happy for you to give advice and help with anything you feel i could do to support my dad further and make sure he is as happy as he can be

  • Hello Tfoz0821, 

    Your poor dad, what an Easter Sunday he had being blue lighted to A & E and what followed must have been such a shock for you all, the hospital finding a bleed on the brain and metastases and your dad being diagnosed with advanced lung cancer. It sounds like they looked after him well in hospital and that they were thorough doing all the necessary tests and I hope that the treatment will be successful and will improve things for him. You will find useful information on our website on chemotherapy for lung cancer and on immunotherapy treatment for lung cancer which I hope will have a positive impact. It's so nice of you to want to be there for him and accompany him and support him every step of the way and it can be hard sometimes to be always positive in a difficult situation like this and as you said, it all happened so quickly and it is indeed a lot you are having to process as a family but I think you are doing the right thing in trying to keep your heads up as much as possible in the circumstances.

    I hope that you will hear from others here who have been through something similar and that they will be along shortly with advice based on their personal experience. Simply being there for your dad and showing your support will I am sure be very much appreciated but I will also share with you the information we have on our website for Family, friends and carers which has a section on how to support someone with cancer without forgetting - which is easily done! - to also take time to take care of yourself.  

    But as nothing replaces hearing from personal experiences, I will now let others step forward and share their thoughts and stories with you. 

    Best wishes and best of luck to your dad for the start of his treatment, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator