Welcome to our forum, Garcia_,

I’m so sorry to hear about your close work friend’s diagnosis. It must have been a huge shock, and I can understand your wish to support him as best as you can during such a difficult time.

The fact that you are already thinking about how to be there for him shows that you care deeply, and that is already something very valuable. While it is not always easy to know what to say or do, simply being present and offering a listening ear can mean a great deal.

Many people find that reading about what others have experienced can give some insight, and there is plenty of that here on the forum. I also wanted to share this page from our website: Family, friends, carers and cancer - it may be helpful if you feel like having a read, as it includes some advice on how to support someone with cancer and also how to look after yourself during this time.

I hope this helps, and I’m sure your friend will appreciate your kindness and thoughtfulness.

Best wishes to you both,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator