Hi I am so sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis.  I always think it is harder for our loved ones that the actual person with the cancer.  I have secondary breast cancer and it has gone into my pelvis, spine, ribs, skull and other bones.  My back pain is also worse in the night time.  I take a syringe of oramorph to bed with me and I can take this every two hours if necessary.  I hope he has told his specialist about the pain.  I am sorry that you are going through this.  Just being there for your husband will help him.  I have a small heated blanket that when I sit down to watch telly I switch this on behind my back and I found that this really helps with my pain.  I wish you and your husband well.  This is a good place to talk, it certainly helps me.  I am here if you need to chat.

Lee x