My mum was just diagnosed with colorectal cancer that's spread to her liver and lungs. It came after a routine scope so the news was like been hit with a sledge. She is so healthy at the moment there's no way anyone could have known. I'm absolutely terrified about everything - the future, what it means for my Dad and how he'll cope. Yesterday was a bad day where could barely hold it together. I don't know what to do or how to be. Meeting with the oncologist on Monday.