Hi, ive joined here today because I don't know where else to turn, my sister has stage 4 lung cancer thats now spread, she is under six stone and eating or swallowing is difficult for her, some family members feel the need to tell her she's not helping herself by not trying to eat, but this is so unfair, my sister is skin and bone and very grey, ive been to every doc appointment sat in hospital day and night and walked by her side every step of way, im now in a state of dread and anxiety before seeing her because I feel the time is nearing, im scared to ask her nurse though, I don't cry in front of her but fo when I'm at home so I feel I grieve a little every day , I just need someone to tell me she's nearing the end so I can help her digest this. Thank you for listening.