My husband has pancreatic cancer with Mets to liver and has been in hospice for 3 weeks. They sent him home for 1 night then had to take him back the next day. Everything fine until yesterday when he turned really nasty to me and my daughter. He accused us of dumping him in there and said the most awful things which I pray we can forget in time. Tried again today but nothing. Wouldn’t even look at us never mind speak. Nurse came in and he told her to tell us to leave which we did.
For the last 27 months he has told me he wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for me and now this. I know it is the cancer but it hurts so much. My daughter is in bits.
has anyone else experienced this please because I feel so alone in all this. I keep thinking he’s going to die hating me after 34 lovely years