Hello Bellapoppy71, 

I am so sorry to hear that you mum has recently been diagnosed with bladder cancer and it must bring a lot of memories back to your mind from when your dad was diagnosed and sadly passed away. Having to witness both parents go through cancer is truly heart-breaking and I can imagine it was a traumatic experience to lose your dad. But try if you can not to think too much about what sadly happened to your dad as no two cancer journeys will be the same and your mum is in the best possible hands I am sure to receive excellent treatment. There is bound to be a lot of uncertainty still at the moment as you only found out 2 weeks ago and you are still waiting to know all the details and I hope that you find out more very soon. 

You are not alone - we are here for you and I hope that you will hear from the experiences of other members who have been through something similar.

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator