Hello my partner is 55 and was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in Nov he has been having weekly chemo but has been really unwell throughout last week he was unable to have treatment as he was unwell with very low platelets. He has now been admitted with pneumonia and is poorly. He has told me he doesn’t want to continue with his chemo he’s had enough, Today I was told that his cancer is very high risk and his treatment needs to change I am worried that when we tell him tomorrow he will refuse and I don’t know how to support him. I feel so sad that he is going through this horrendous time and I feel totally useless. I know we are not alone  and my heart goes out to everyone facing this horrible disease xx