Excessive incontinence after radiation

My mum (age 80) had uterine cancer about 8 years ago. She had radiation treatment and ultimately, a full hysterectomy. Since then, she has really struggled with severe incontinence, which is affecting her quality of life. It doesn't help that she has had a severe cough for most of her life, which makes the incontinence even worse. She goes to the toilet every 15-20 minutes, goes through dozens of pads a day, wakes up wet two or three times every night and  is mentally and physically exhausted - not to mention tired, depressed and anxious. I hate seeing her like this and want to help, but I don't know what to do. Mum has been waiting years to see a specialist/consultant and every time she follows up, she's told to call back again in several months time, so she is getting absolutely nowhere with the medical profession. Has anyone else got any suggestions, or can point me in the direction of a medical professional I could speak with?

  • Welcome to the forum Bev although I'm so sorry to hear what your mum has been contending with since finishing her treatment. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult these last 8 years have been for her.

    Hopefully some of our members who have encountered similar issues will be along soon to share their experiences and advice but if you'd like to speak with one of our cancer nurses about this, you can do so on 0808 800 4040. Their phone lines are open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they'll do all they can to help.

    You may also be able to get some further information and advice from the Bladder & Bowel Community.

    We're thinking of you Bev and hope that your mum can get the much needed support she has been waiting for to help with her incontinence issues.

    Best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Thanks very much Steph. I’ll call the nurse line today.