Hi my husband is undergoing his surgery(radical neck dissection) for secondary melanoma this week. I'm so worried and am not sleeping. I'm not sure what to expect and how he will recover, I don't think I've ever been as scared. Hopefully he'll get through with no complications and recover fully...my anxiety is through the roof but I'm being positive around him cause I know he's terrified. We lost his mum and brother last year to cancer and don't think we'll cope going through that again...any words of support would be gratefully appreciated