Aww bless you this must be so hard for you and everyone else. I am really sorry to hear about your husband and what he's going through. This is so tough and distressing and I want you to know that there is no wrong or right way to cope and feel with it. If you want or need to cry then you cry away. Crying is a good release. When my mum was dying of cancer and I was helping care and support her I cried so much, every day and night. It was heartbreaking. I also was irritable and at times so angry, I felt it wasn't fair that this was happening and would just break down. So please please do not be so hard on yourself. It's natural to feel the way you are feeling and you shouldn't be hard on yourself for it or ashamed ️ I've felt the same, and I am sure so many others have here as well.

Like Steph said it might be worth letting your granddaughters school know what's going on so that they can support her and it might be a good idea to let her know about Childline who can offer her a lot of support during this horrible time. I've been in touch with Childline since my mum passed away and still am now and their support has got me through a lot of tough times.

And if you need to talk-vent-or cry then you can always come here for support from the community.. we all want to be here for you and help you through this awful time ️

I send you all the love and hugs in the world xx

Love Jess xx

Aww bless you this must be so hard for you and everyone else. I am really sorry to hear about your husband and what he's going through. This is so tough and distressing and I want you to know that there is no wrong or right way to cope and feel with it. If you want or need to cry then you cry away. Crying is a good release. When my mum was dying of cancer and I was helping care and support her I cried so much, every day and night. It was heartbreaking. I also was irritable and at times so angry, I felt it wasn't fair that this was happening and would just break down. So please please do not be so hard on yourself. It's natural to feel the way you are feeling and you shouldn't be hard on yourself for it or ashamed ️ I've felt the same, and I am sure so many others have here as well.

Like Steph said it might be worth letting your granddaughters school know what's going on so that they can support her and it might be a good idea to let her know about Childline who can offer her a lot of support during this horrible time. I've been in touch with Childline since my mum passed away and still am now and their support has got me through a lot of tough times.

And if you need to talk-vent-or cry then you can always come here for support from the community.. we all want to be here for you and help you through this awful time ️

I send you all the love and hugs in the world xx

Love Jess xx