Husband has cancer says horrible things

My husband was diagnosed in 2014 had a transplant  2015 he  Relapsed last yea his  next treatment  didn't  work so had intense  chemo  made him unwell  but we know  there is treatment  there for him, I understand  all he's going  through  and feel for him, but he saying  nasty  things / he says no one help him Ihe sed he's sent home to die and I know it  I  took him back to hospital  cos he wouldn't  drink ( he knew  if he didn't  he won't  wee  he said he won't  be coming  out of hospital   says he got all other things he diagnosed  himself  with poison  prostrate  fail kidney none have been said to him , he's nasty  with me said he wish I could have it for 5 min to know  how he feels , he wants 24 7 care and doesn't  think he's being helped enough when in fact he has all and more , he has let it take over his life even when in remission he wouldn't  live   i tell him other people  don have a chance he's had 8 yrs so far and still being treated  , it's like he wants me to suffer with him he's only  like it with me , I don't know why i gave up my job and everything  to be there for him .he says he don't know  what he doing  but I know he can switch  on and off with me and other  people  nurses  have told me he's winding  me up and pulling  wool over my eyes  because  when he's in hospital  he's perfectly normal, but on phone he's saying  all sorts  to me I'm all cried out 

  • Hello I'm sorry to hear that your partner is nasty . I know how that feels my partner was diognised cancer of the oasoagus in August last year? He was constantly pushing me away telling me I needed someone else to take me out and much more . He's now dumped me last Saturday telling me to enjoy my life and be happy . I was happy , I cared for him continued to work to run my home which he lived in . I'm heartbroken by this and don't know what to do anymore ! It's the second time now . I feel like I need to respect his wishes and let him carry on  

    I do feel for you I know exactly what you're going through. 
    Take care .