Hi all. I’m posting here because I don’t know what else to do. We think my dad has cancer, from the symptoms he has we think it’s Esophagus cancer. The problem is he will not see a doctor! He is 67 and is of sound mind but we are all so very worried that he’s not got much longer left. He can’t swallow, my mom has to blend his food, he’s constantly being sick or spitting into the sink. His voice is getting harder to understand, it sounds like someone has their hand around his throat (sorry that’s the best way I can describe it) and he’s lost a massive amount of weight, you can see his bones through his clothes. He lost control of his bowels last week in his sleep and then stayed in bed for the day but seemed to recover from that ok so I think that may just have been a bug. Im so sorry for the long post I just don’t know what to do. Im so worried for my mom too, She still works and is also taking care of my Dad when he needs it. She’s told him she wants to get doctors involved but he’s warned her off. Any advice would be gratefully received.

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