Hi there Jollyhead and thanks for your post,

I am sorry to hear about your mum. This must be very difficult for your family.

As long as your mum is taking in some food and fluids it should be fine until you see the Sue Ryder Nurse on Thursday. As long as she feels comfortable and is not in any pain, that is the most important thing. If you have any concerns I am sure that you could get in touch with Goldline.

Try and give your mum what she wants to eat. Jelly can be easy to eat as can some ice-cream. Frozen fresh fruit lollies maybe a good idea as they are refreshing and can help if her mouth is feeling dry.

Offer small frequent meals rather then larger helpings. Often patients with a terminal cancer don't have a large appetite and this will probably decrease as time goes on. Trying to focus on making her comfortable and giving her sips of fluid will help.

World Cancer Research Fund is a charity run by dietitians and they may have tips on foods that your mum may enjoy.

I do hope that her appointment goes well on Thursday.

You are welcome to ring the helpline nurses to talk any of this through.

The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm.

All the best,

Catherine

thanks Catherine, very helpful