How long does it take for him to start showing signs of deterioration?

Hi, my dad was told in November he had liver cancer.he met the oncologist in December who said he could have treatment but he went 3 days ago and now they are saying he can’t have treatment and it’s very aggressive.my dad is 72 and fit and healthy otherwise but I want to know how long does it take for him to start showing signs of deterioration. Oncologist is ringing him on 17th February to see how he’s getting on.

many thanks

  • Hello DMDmum50, and thank you for posting,

    I am very sorry to hear that your dad has been diagnosed with an aggressive cancer of the liver. This must be a very difficult and worrying time for you and your family, and it’s understandable to have many questions and concerns.

    As we are not directly involved in your dad’s care, we are unable to say how quickly he may deteriorate, as this can vary greatly from person to person. The team looking after your dad, who has full knowledge of his individual situation, are best placed to give you more of an idea of what to expect.

    With your dad’s permission, it may be helpful to speak with his specialist nurse (CNS), if he has one. Alternatively, if possible, you might find it helpful to be with your dad when he sees the consultant on the 17th, so you can both ask questions and hear the information.

    I am sorry that I cannot give you more specific guidance at this time. You are very welcome to contact us again if you have any further questions, or if you would simply like to talk things through with one of our nurses. Our helpline is available Monday to Friday, 9am–5pm, on 0808 800 4040.

    Kind regards,

    Jemma

  • Hello DMDmum50

    I am so sorry to read about your dads disgnosis it is such a big thing to get your head around. Nurse Jemmas advice about going with your dad to see his  consultant would be helpful. Arm yourself with a list of questions so you dont forget ( which we all do)

    Dont be afraid to ask for it in clear english....not doctor speak. ..

    Also Macmillian helpline are open every day of the week 8-8 you can chat to them as can your dad I found them helpful in many ways emotional factual and with finances when my hubby was taken ill.

    I hope you get some support and remember you are not alone 

    Sending strength to you your dad

    Kindest wishes

    RB