I was diagnosed with breast cancer a week ago. I'm shortly to have a lumpectomy. I'm terrified, and not coping. I need to be able to talk with someone's
I was diagnosed with breast cancer a week ago. I'm shortly to have a lumpectomy. I'm terrified, and not coping. I need to be able to talk with someone's
Hi Suereigate, I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I know it is scary when you hear the word cancer but you will be in good hands and the oncologist and care team will definitely do their best for you. I had a lumpectomy, then chemo and then radiotherapy. I am happy to chat as I normally look on here daily. The Macmillan forum also has a breast cancer forum and there is lots of support and information on there as everyone has the same kind of cancer. Do you have a date for your lumpectomy yet, it is normally a day case and you can go home afterwards. Good luck
Lee x
Hi there and thanks for the post
I am sorry to hear about your recent diagnosis and appreciate what a difficult time this must be for you. Receiving news about cancer is never easy and most people a series of different emotions which can be very unsettling.
It is important to reach out for help to ease you through this time. Do make your doctor and specialist team aware of how you are currently feeling so they can best support you.
I am not sure what support you may have from friends and family but I am sure if you have people around you they will also want to be there for you.
Taking therapies such as counselling can also be of help to people navigating a cancer diagnosis. This can be through hospital or cancer support services such as Macmillan or Maggie Centres in person or on line. You can also look up local cancer support services to you through postcode on the Cancer care map website.
Other support specifically for people affected by breast cancer include Breast cancer now that also offer someone like me services where they can put you in touch with someone in a similar position.
You are welcome to chat away on the forum but if you would also like to call one of the nurses here please do. We are here weekdays 9-5 on 0808 800 4040.
Wishing you all the very best
Take care
Naomi