Hi there and thanks for posting

I am sorry to hear about your husband.

Unfortunately without being involved in his care and not being able to assess him, we suggest you speak with the palliative care team involved so they can advise you.

We appreciate how difficult times like this can be for both the patient and the loved ones, so I do hope you are getting the support and help you need as well.

Do get back in touch if needed or alternatively give us a call on 0808 800 4040 if you prefer. We are here weekdays 9-5.

Best wishes

Naomi

Hi Naomi,

Thanks for your kind words.

I know it’s a difficult situation to try to help us without knowing him, I think I was just putting into words my fears, which are real, and sometimes just feels too much to cope with.
My poor man also has Vascular Dementia and has no idea how really unwell he is, I don’t know if he was fully cognisant whether it would be easier, but at least I don’t have his fears of a painful death to deal with too. 
Thanks again. x