End of life - dad has advanced terminal prostate cancer. Based on his signs and symptoms, how long do you think he has left?

My dad has terminal prostate cancer and its spread to his bones - ribs and back area, he sleeps most of the time, eats very little (a yoghurt and 2 bites of a sandwich per day, drinks a lot of tea mind!) ! He has a catheter as well. He recently was admitted to hospital because of blood loss via catheter, he was given 3 x transfusions and was released home 2 days later. In the last six months he has lost an incredible amount of weight and he battles to speak, it comes out like a squeaky forced shout? And a year ago had 2 strokes, he’s on blood thinners (but this makes his bladder bleed) and then ends up in hospital for blood transfusions, if he stops the thinners he’s at very high risk of stroke. He also has COPD. My question is how long do you think he has left to live? And what should I expect going forward? I can’t ask the doctors as mom is always with me and dad and mom never talk about “those things “  how can I tell my mom to prepare for his death??  I also believe my mom has the beginning of altzimers (been through that journey with my partners mom) please can you help me. Dawn

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  • Hi Dawn,

    It's very difficult to say - My mum was admitted to hopsital around this time last year with secondary cancer in her Spine . The Consultant at that time said she only had weeks left and she last just over another 80 days, granted she was still alert at this point and able to hold a conversation, so their estimate was way out.

    You'll know the end is near when he stops talking completely and then struggles to stay awake at all which then of course means he wont be eating or drinking.

    Once they remove his IV Drip, it's probably a matter of days.

    Thoughts are with you at this time I know how difficult it can be 

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  • Hi Dawn,

    It's very difficult to say - My mum was admitted to hopsital around this time last year with secondary cancer in her Spine . The Consultant at that time said she only had weeks left and she last just over another 80 days, granted she was still alert at this point and able to hold a conversation, so their estimate was way out.

    You'll know the end is near when he stops talking completely and then struggles to stay awake at all which then of course means he wont be eating or drinking.

    Once they remove his IV Drip, it's probably a matter of days.

    Thoughts are with you at this time I know how difficult it can be 

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