I no from the title this is an absolutely horrendous thing to even think but I'm so lost and confused and don't no what to do. My cousin was diagnosed with prostate cancer just over 3 years ago. He initially had treatment but wouldn't go into detail however then stopped as he said he didn't want the treatment anymore. At the time he was diagnosed he had a lot of family drama going on and he had done something bad. He also told his gf at the time he had cancer and she got back together with him and allowed contact with their daughter again as due to previous dv this has stoped before the cancer happened.
I do no he had something wrong as his mum said he had a colestomy bag. However my cousin is a drug addict and alcoholic and this has never changed even throughout treatment.
He never lost his hair (which I no doesn't always happen) and he wasn't sick, nor lost weight and still carried on working. My auntie at the time (his mum) had been diagnosed with breast cancer and she sadly lost her battle last year, but my auntie had all the treatment and was extremely sick and struggled.
My cousin eventually attacked his then gf and was taken to Court and in the court paperwork the gf put that social services found no evidence of him having cancer and just used it to have access to his daughter, however I don't no if this is actually the truth or if she made it up nor do I no if anyone is aloud to lie on paperwork given to the court.
my cousin told everyone last year that if he didn't have surgery he would be dead in 1 year but if he did have surgery he wouldn't be able to have intercource again. He choice not to have the surgery but is still fine and won't mention the cancer to anyone even if they try bringing it up.
his just started seeing a new girl and has spoke about his cancer to her and told her his very sick and only has a few years left as it's spread to his lymph nodes. My cousin isn't the most intelligent person so if this isn't true I don't no how he knows so much about cancer but I'm really not sure what to believe. I have tried to support and help him as much as I can but he just shuts me out. My cousin is only 36 and still does everything he did throughout all of this. Please can someone offer me some advice of this and prostate cancer. Thank you