Chemo or not?

My husband is 73 and really fit.  He has recently had surgery for stage 3 colon cancer and had it removed without any need for a colostomy bag.  He had 21 lymph nodes removed and the first lymph node had cancer cells but the others were clear. T3N1.

Apparently he is missing a Miss Match Repair gene which is the cause of his cancer, isolated to the bowel.  

The oncologist is telling us that he has a 70% of the cancer NOT returning but if he has 4 rounds of chemo  oxaliplatin and capecitabine this will increase to 80%.  My husband has recovered really well from the surgery and is feeling good.  He is not sure that the possible long term side effects are worth the 10% benefit.  He is very stoic and is not worried about short term sickness .

i think we were both expecting to get a better protection from the chemo.  I really don’t know what to think.  

Is immunotherapy a treatment at this point?  Is it less toxic?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks 

LindaLou

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  • Hi

    After my second bowel cancer I was given the same decision, the same 2 drugs. I went ahead with the four sessions. you don't lose your hair with this chemo but suppose like any chemo it's tough while you are having it. It's over 5 years ago now. x

  • Thanks for replying.  Do you mind if I ask if you have suffered anything long term.?  My sister had breast cancer and is still troubled by neuropathy in her feet. We love to walk.  This is main fear that he will end up worse off. I want him to be with me as long as possible but am fearful to push for chemo. 

  • I am just the same as before this awful disease, except the health anxiety but that seems to be the same with everyone after having cancer, abit of neuropathy during treatment. I can't see any reason why you can't get back to doing the same things you love doing. I had a week off inbetween sessions and was almost normal then. Always here for your questions. 

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  • I am just the same as before this awful disease, except the health anxiety but that seems to be the same with everyone after having cancer, abit of neuropathy during treatment. I can't see any reason why you can't get back to doing the same things you love doing. I had a week off inbetween sessions and was almost normal then. Always here for your questions. 

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