Hello, my Partner has recently been suffering with Pain in one of his Testicles, he’s found a lump, and only just told me today that he has had this lump inside his ballsack attached to his testicle for ages he said months possibly a year or could be more… he never suffered with pain before so sort of probably didn’t tell me and he never got checked out. I’m just extremely worried about him, he said it’s probably grown but not much but it’s pea sized maybe, but now he’s in a lot of pain with it. I’m extremely worried about him because obviously I love him so deeply and I don’t have anybody else left in my life but my Partner we’ve been together 8-9 years and I’m terrified of loosing him the only person I’ve got left.
Please give me reassurance maybe it isn’t Cancer and it could be something else? Or is anything I’m talking about sound like Cancer? I’ve read so many different thing’s Online and I don’t know what to believe, I know he’s gonna get checked out but in the meantime I don’t know how to calm down. I feel sick and shaky and terrified with fear, I keep taking deep breaths. I just wish men wasn’t so stubborn and would go as soon as they felt something there, and not wait until it was causing him pain to speak out about it or finally realise, it’s frustrating. I know he may be embarrassed, but I told him it could cost him his life, it’s so important.
Online has been saying it’s less likely to be because usually Cancer would have developed quicker, and not been around for that long, and also seen thing’s that say the lump wouldn’t be that painful it would usually be painless? I mean I don’t know, but I’d love some reassurance but most importantly honesty.
Thank you