I am 14 and don’t no how Otto tell dad I have lump on testi

I am a 14 year old and have a a lump on my ball for a bit now.I don't know if I should tell my dad , who I have a unstable relationship with and only see once every 2 weeks or my mother . I think I should tell my dad but I am still very anxious as it would be awkward and I don't know how he would react.How and when would be a good time to tell him about my thoughts and how to overcome the fear of asking

  • Please please please speak to your dad, or a teacher. My husband have testicular cancer if you need to speak to someone not in your family you can talk to him. Don't be embarrassed by this you need to talk. Please 

  • Its is really so important that you tell your Dad and your Mum that you have found a lump and that you are worried about it so that they can help you get the care you need. Drs see these type of problems all the time so they will be able to assess you and decide on the next course of action. This lump may not be serious but you need to get a medical opinion to be sure that you are OK.  Uou have taken the first step in helping yourself by asking for advice please take the next step soon and tell your Mum or Dad. I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you will be ok.

  • Hello there 

    There can be many reasons for lumps and bumps to appear in the body and most will be harmless. As you are at an age where you are going through puberty you will notice many differences to your body, including your balls.

    I understand it being a bit embarrassing but I would suggest you try and speak to your mother about this as soon as you can and then she can always speak to your dad and ask him to talk about it with you as well.

    As a parent myself of teenagers as well as a nurse I would hate for my kids not to share any worries or concerns with me, it's part of our job as a mum or a dad. Do also remember we were all teenagers once so know how it feels to be your age so rather than thinking about it just do it before it becomes a big elephant in the room.

    If they are unsure about the lump or what it could be they can arrange an appointment for you to get it checked by the doctor, who like others have said are very used to assessing this type of thing and putting you at ease, and arrange more tests if needed.

    As I say hopefully there is a simple cause that isn't serious but for peace of mind do talk to someone.

    Take care

    Naomi