Hi Minska i am Ronnie's wife Sylvia i have had 6 weeks from hell with the Ronnie's stoma. He has still not leant how to change it and relies on me all the time. I have to be truthful i can not stand changing it. I feel sick has hell. I have never been able to look at cuts and the like. I have tried my best but i cant go on with it. He is 82 and a think not capable of changing it himself. He has got an appointment with a stoma nurse tomorrow and i am going to ask if there is a stoma nurse that can call twice a week to come and change his stoma bag. There must be something they can do. They must go to people that are in the same way or someone really old and can not manage on there own. I feel angry that they automatically thought i could change it for him they never even asked they just presumed  I will let you know what they say. Regards from Sylvia