Deciding whether or not to have chemotherapy

Hi I've recently had my oncotype DX report and my score is 24. I'm 44 years old and premenopausal, after a discussion with my oncologist I feel I've come away none the wiser???? 

I had a lumpectomy and was told I had micrometastases, where the closest lymph node was just showing signs of cancer.

Initially I was adamant that if chemotherapy was my choice I wasn't going to have it, however I now kind of wish it wasn't. I'm really struggling to make a choice and don't feel like I've been given a good case either way, I don't understand how I'm supposed to make that choice if my oncologist can't.

Please help 

MJ

 

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  • Hi mj

    I thought I would reply as I'm near the end of my Chemo, I'm 38 and originally was just going to have radiotherapy' after my Lumpectomy but because the grade increased to a grade 3 after surgery I had to have Chemo which came as a shock.

    I felt completely scared about the prospect of having chemo, but I thought I'm 38 a really fit and healthy Mum of 2 and while I'm in this storm at my fittest I thought to myself " bring it on" 

    There are lots of horror stories but it is Do-able, it is tough and hard at time emotionally  but if you have family and friends too help you get it done that is all you need. 
     

    I had 3xFEC and 3x Docetaxil every three weeks. I had a pic line put on which has been fine. 
     

    You will have a chat with your Chemo nurse who will tell you lots of scary Side effects, they don't all happen and my side effects only last a week too Ten days after my treatment then I start too feel okay again. They Manage all the side effects really well with Sickness Tablets, mouth wash, creams etc.  

    i was able to manage my symptoms as they were the same each time, when I changed too Docetaxil they changed but again where the same. 

    I also used the cold cap. I wish you all the best 

    Sarah xxxx 

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  • Hi mj

    I thought I would reply as I'm near the end of my Chemo, I'm 38 and originally was just going to have radiotherapy' after my Lumpectomy but because the grade increased to a grade 3 after surgery I had to have Chemo which came as a shock.

    I felt completely scared about the prospect of having chemo, but I thought I'm 38 a really fit and healthy Mum of 2 and while I'm in this storm at my fittest I thought to myself " bring it on" 

    There are lots of horror stories but it is Do-able, it is tough and hard at time emotionally  but if you have family and friends too help you get it done that is all you need. 
     

    I had 3xFEC and 3x Docetaxil every three weeks. I had a pic line put on which has been fine. 
     

    You will have a chat with your Chemo nurse who will tell you lots of scary Side effects, they don't all happen and my side effects only last a week too Ten days after my treatment then I start too feel okay again. They Manage all the side effects really well with Sickness Tablets, mouth wash, creams etc.  

    i was able to manage my symptoms as they were the same each time, when I changed too Docetaxil they changed but again where the same. 

    I also used the cold cap. I wish you all the best 

    Sarah xxxx 

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