Hi, I've recently realised I've got a lump behind my ear that comes and goes. Only recently it's popped up bigger then previous times and a lot more prominent by touch and looking at it... for the past couple of weeks I've been unwell but putting it all down to something else that's going on. This lump at first was a bit painful but now I feel absolutely nothing of it... however I can feel that it is there when I'm lying on that side. My mum is a big worrier and over the past couple of mnth we've lost some family members who were either miss diagnosed or late diagnosed. And although I don't have much concern for it I'm still getting it checked just wondering if I'm ok to not have much concern haha... I've got an appointment but it's such a wait... I've not really been sleeping well and waking up with night sweats aswell as constantly feeling sick.  Doctors are aware of those symptoms as again I've had something else going on but again my mum worried that they're all connected...

tia..cx