HI ClaireBee,

I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Have you been told what type of breast cancer you have? Now that this has been discovered, you will find that they will start treatment quite quickly. Waiting for scan results is always an anxious time and nearly all of us find our emotions all over the place at this stage. We also find that our imaginations go into overdrive and take us to all sorts of dark places. 

You are in the right hands now, so try to just go with the flow. Don't look at the bigger picture. Just take things day by day. Place your trust in your care team and, you will be fine. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer in the past 12 years and, I still lead a busy and fulfilling life. You will have a challenging few months of treatment and, you should then get your life back again. Thank goodness for mammograms, which pick cancer up even before we notice it ourselves.

The best way to deal with this wait is to keep yourslf preoccupied with a pastime or some of the many jobs that need to be done. I sincerely hope that all goes well for you. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi Jolamine,

Thank you so much for your words. It's intermediate  DCIS. I actually went back to work for two days - currently in low stress job so thought it would be distraction- but today I just couldn't cope and came home early. I've managed to get some medication for the intense anxiety I'm feeling, which should last me over the weekend. I think I'll just have to take next week off work. Ended up telling the manager as I was clearly upset but seems supportive.

One of my adult offspring is on antidepressants and really needs me so don't know how they will cope with the news when I can't keep it together myself. What an awful mess.

Why does it sound like people are saying once you have cancer then you always have it? Surely if you get cured then you don't have it. And everyone has a chance of getting it surely.

Claire x

Hi ClaireBee,

I am glad to hear that your GP has prescribed something for your anxiety and, that this is helping. Intermediate DCIS is perfectly treatable. There is no truth to the fact that once you have cancer, you will always have it. Once you have surgery the cancer should be removed completely. You are then likely to have some form of treatment to stop it from recurring. The more aggressive forms  may recur, but there is no guarantee that this will happen.

It is good news that it hasn't spread to your lymph nodes. It would be unlikely to spread any further before you start fighting it, but is even less likely to spread when it is not in your nodes.One in two people get breast cancer nowadays, so not that many of us are lucky enough not to have a brush with it at some stage.

It will be difficult to break the news to your offspring, but you will find that the more positive you can be when doing so, the better it will be accepted.

Don't forget that we are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi,

I won't know for sure about the lymph nodes until after surgery but the ultrasound looks clear. I do feel better already from what you've said though. Thank you.

C.

Hi,

I won't know for sure about the lymph nodes until after surgery but the ultrasound looks clear. I do feel better already from what you've said though. Thank you.

C.