Hi,
My husband has bowel cancer, he started first round of chemo, he was due chemo then surgery, but very quickly, chemo didnt go to plan, the chemo effected his heart which had been otherwise well. No blood clots, no furred up arteries. The upshot is chemo is not an option certainly for now, his heart needs to recover and subject to a heart scan he's now looking at going straight to surgery.. We have to wait 3 weeks for the scan. Now we have complications I just can't stop thinking about the worse, worried for his heart, more worried about cancer if chemo is not an option for after. We have not really had the chance to understand the full picture becauae everything will depend on his heart scan. How can I stop worrying about him dying. I'm worried sick. Chemo is always the treatment I associate with successful recovery, but without that, now I just feel so negative we have a young son. Has this happened to anyone else? Im looking for some reassurance