hi all I've got a tumor in my right kidney and I've already had a third of my left kidney removed due to another tumor. Iam 42 and have 3 beautiful children.ive been divorced for five years because my ex became a horrible person by having a number of affairs. I found out I had the first tumor in December last year and my operation was on Monday the 11th may 2015 but on the Thursday before the operation my ex wife was sent to prison for 4 months for fraud an theft. I already had joint of the girls but what was I going to do while I was in hospital and like I said this was on the Thursday before the operation and that left me one day the Friday to do all the necessary phone calls,which by the end of they day I had sorted but then my body went into a stress attack because I didn't low how I was going to cope. the doctor was called out for me and I was heavily sedated. my family and friends were my rock and between everybody cared for my children. I'm still fighting cancer but also fighting a custdoy battle for my girls and I am strongly winning. a lot of peole have battles in thier life but some just haven't got a clue and it's plain sailing for them....rant over lol