I`m married to Len had 2 boys our youngest passed away 7yrs ago he had a seizure & choked,he would have been 31yrs old this yr,other son is 34yrs & is a rock to me.I have 4 sisters,1brother youngest sister lives in Spain & is just recovering from breast cancer,I`ve another sister also lives in Spain 1 in Canada & 1 in Sheffield who is also a rock for me brother lives in Middlesex even though we`re spread about the globe we keep in touch via web,Len is an incredible husband he puts up with a lot of rubbish from me but never complains we have our rows like anyone else but always tells me he loves me as I do him. My cancer is in R lung is operable,but as it has spread to R.shoulder,Adrenal glands & in R,leg the MDT decided to try & shrink the tumors first with chemo & try for an op later