Hi. I lost my dear husband to cancer 19 years ago when he was just 31and I was 30. Our son at the time was only 5 years old. Fast forward 19 years and here I am. Hoping to help others like I was 19 years ago. Wanting to talk to someone that actually understands how you feel, without the poor dears and it will be okays from people that have not been through it themselves. I know that they all mean well bless them, but it's not quite the same as talking to someone that has been through it.