Hi am 49 year old nearly made it to the big 50 in January , I have twin daughters who are 22 years old who recently left home one a few weeks ago and the other in the process was a single mum for along time whilst growing up , recently got married to a wonderful fella who is ͏m͏y rock been together for 6 years . We both work for the NHS I am a health care assistant of 27 years . Have just been diagnosed with melanoma Breslow 4.1 mm am having surgery on Wednesday 18 th July wide local excission . Had a CT scan waiting on results and blood test results as struggling with leg pain . We love our holidays ,hat , sun tan lotion and out of season for me now . Really enjoy walking hoping get my legs back in action ,national trust . Love a dance , live music and cheeky cocktail looking forward to doing my passions in life and seeing my beautiful family grow .