My wife, age 42 has multile cancers - lung, hib, glands and brain. It all started in July when after feeling unwell for some time, she eventually ended up in hospital where scans revealed the extent of the problems. She was given months to live and whole brain radiontherpy helped for a while. She was too sick to have chemo. She retired from the job she loved in October and I look after her full time. Our daugher is 14. My wife never smoked or drank and lived a healthy life. I'm so scared of 2019.