Two weeks ago we found out my dad has lung cancer. He is getting on in senior years and has several health complaints. He doesn't want surgery and although it is potentially operative he honestly wouldn't be up to the surgery. So now we face an uncertain few weeks/ months. It's making me feel so sad. Watching him getting more frail. We have had a holiday booked for ages and now have the dilemma do we cancel. We can be home in a day if needed but in reality I want to spend the time with him but don't want to let my husband and friends down either. What a dilemma!!!!