I’m a 39 year old mum of two and wife to an amazing husband. I’ve just lost my dad to cancer (July 2019). Our relationship over the years was difficult, he was a difficult man. So I’m learning to grieve for someone who I loved because he was my father but also to deal with the resentments I didn’t realise I was still harbouring 30 years later. Who knew grief was such a journey ........