my name is Carol im married 49yrs old, have some mobility problems and most days are full of pain, employer forced medical retirement on to me 6yrs ago. im married for a 2nd time just had 15th wedding anniversary. ive 3 children my hubby has 2, all now are over 21 and we live on our own. A few yrs ago I was told by the breast clinic after a scare I had what id quite common, lumpy breast syndrome.. Nightmare as I never know what's what when I self exam.